How did we end up back in this place again? Why did I say that to him – again!?!?! I took the class, I listened to the preacher, we prayed – how can I break this cycle once and for all and have the happily ever after I dreamed of for my Christian Marriage? Can […]
Why and How to Have a Yearly Marriage State of the Union
How long have you been married? Do you ever evaluate the state of your Marriage together? Today marks 14 years since Bud and I said “I do”. Some of those years were amazing while others were very bad. An anniversary is the perfect time to look back on the state of the year that has […]

My Top Reasons Not to Give Forgiveness in Marriage
Bitter. Resentful. In denial. Everything I touched seemed to fall apart – just like me – falling apart. Nothing was going right in my life – including my marriage. I knew I should give Forgiveness in Marriage… but honestly, that felt too hard. We had tried everything to save it, but still, nothing went right. […]

Interview: Top 5 Communication Secrets in a Christian Marriage
This past week I was Interviewed by the Owner of Scattered Women Pursuing Purpose – Laura Stufflebam Holth. Laura is on a mission to teach woman to strategically fit together the scattered pieces of life in a way that allows us to see the true purpose! Sounds amazing right!?!?!?!?!?! And what did we chat […]
1 Amazing Testimony of Joy in a Christian Marriage
Do you ever feel alone? Like you are the only one struggling in a Christian Marriage? You are not alone. Today I am honored to shine the light on a beautiful Testimony of a Woman with Joy in her Marriage. Ifeoma is a woman who pursues God with all of her heart on her spot […]
A Genuine Struggle for Chivalry in a Biblical Marriage
What are some of the things you wish your husband did for you -without being told to do them? It may sound silly, but I wish he would drop me off under the awning at church when it rains, open doors for me, walk on the street side of the sidewalk to protect me. Chivalry… […]
Do You Need New Hope and Joy in Your Marriage?
Do you remember the day you were Married? It was a day of Hope. Everything would be beautiful and life would be complete now that you were together forever! A New Hope… Didn’t the ceremony exude Joy? The music, the decorations, the bride dressed in white (well some of the brides – not me ;), […]
How to Stop Controlling My Husband in a Christian Marriage
The noise level in the house -as I walked in from running an errand – was like defcon 1. War was raging in the kids room. My husband was upset – yelling empty threats at the wall. I jumped right in -asking for details, criticizing his lofty expectations of our little blessings. Things escalated quickly […]
3 Easy Ways to Fight The Enemy For Freedom in Our Thoughts
This is a War Y’all. We are fighting a seasoned enemy. That snake is practiced and rehearsed and has more experience than all of us combined. But I believe Freedom in our Thoughts is not only possible – but Critical. We must fight the enemy! Last month we talked about the 3 Urgent Reasons to […]
Pray for My Pastors Is the Best Way to Love My Church
How do you feel about your Church? Do you love it or are you struggling with some things? Our church has been going through a big transition – for the better I believe – but big nonetheless. Y’all, I never realized the emotions that change can stir up in a church… or in myself. The […]