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God’s design for sex is the opposite of culture.  Find God’s design for sex in Marriage and learn how to raise godly children who value purity.

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Is Virtual Infidelity A Ground for Divorce Biblically?

February 3, 2021February 3, 2021 Tiffany Montgomery 4 Comments

Have you ever gone back to your browsing history to find something only to find out it has been wiped clean?  As the wife of a man who struggled with an addiction that was a red flag.  One such morning about 10 years ago, I found myself asking google a question.  I struggled with how […]

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55 Free or Cheap Date Night Ideas at Home

June 3, 2020June 8, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 2 Comments

Once upon a time, a man and a woman made reservations, got dressed up, went out on the town together, and had romantic date nights.  Then this same couple got married, advanced their careers, or had children and date night was forever changed.  So here we are searching for cheap date night ideas at home! […]

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11 Steps to Start Overcoming Pornography Biblically for Life

May 18, 2020May 18, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 6 Comments

Have you been fighting the battle of Overcoming Pornography?  It’s a battle that feels uphill and dotted with land mines all with the purpose of sucking you back into the pit.  Thankfully in this modern technological world that tempts us to sin we also find tools and resources to help with overcoming pornography.  Who Needs […]

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10 Biblical Reasons for Marriage That Still Apply Today. Purpose of marriage quotes, the purpose of marriage relationships, purpose of marriage truths, God's purpose of marriage, Biblical purpose of marriage, marriage advice, marriage quotes, Christian marriage advice, #MarriageAdvice #HopeJoyinChrist

10 Biblical Reasons for Marriage That Still Apply Today

April 23, 2020April 23, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 15 Comments

What is the point of marriage? Is it worth all the hard work and headaches involved in creating a healthy marriage?  I don’t know if you are single, wondering if marriage is worth the effort, or married wondering if fighting for your marriage is worth the effort.  Either way, today I want to share some […]

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My Husband is Driving Me Crazy at Home – 60 Simple Ways to Help

March 20, 2020March 25, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 3 Comments

What do you do when, unexpectedly, you are couped up with your husband?  24/7.  No time apart in the near future.  Even if your marriage is healthy and happy that much time together can put stress on the relationship.  What happens if your marriage was already in a difficult season?  Disaster looms.  I don’t know […]

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Find Joy as a Helpmeet for Him: 4 Ultimate Ways

August 23, 2019September 15, 2019 Christia Colquitt 3 Comments

Wouldn’t you agree that living as a helpmeet for him ranks somewhere up there with loving submission for most modern wives?  Now when you add the idea of being his help meet with joy I feel even more put off.  But if you are here, you are also asking what the Bible says about marriage […]

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The Uncomfortable Truth About Sex in a Christian Marriage FtImg (Biblical Wifehood, Reclaiming Hope & Joy in your Marriage)

The Uncomfortable Truth about Sex in a Christian Marriage

February 25, 2019April 10, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 92 Comments

Sex is always an uncomfortable subject.  Even as a Married woman, I struggle to talk openly about sex. Crazy right?  Maybe not so crazy, when you think about how little we have real conversations about sex in our society.  Don’t get me wrong, sex is everywhere… but is the media portraying the reality of sex?  […]

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Sex, Body Image, and Faith in a Christian Marriage

December 10, 2018October 11, 2019 Tiffany Montgomery 10 Comments

Do you want to change your negative body image?  Have you ever noticed that it is creating distance from sexual intimacy with your husband? I never saw the connection until it began to change.  Today I will share some aha moments and practical ways to improve body image and sex with faith in marriage! Psalm […]

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What Is the Talk About Sex Anyway & Why It Matters?

September 15, 2018February 3, 2020 Tiffany Montgomery 10 Comments

Do you remember that fateful day your mom or dad sat you down and had The talk about sex with you?  Or are you like me and that day never came?  Everything I’ve learned about those birds and bees came from peers, the internet or experience.  I vowed my girls would not struggle with sex […]

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How to Fight the Enemy for Purity in Thought

February 21, 2017May 21, 2019 Tiffany Montgomery 6 Comments

Can you remember the last commercial you saw?  There’s this one with a Victoria Secret model on a beach…  selling car insurance.  What?!?!?!  Where is the connection there?!?!?!?  Our culture uses sex to sell almost everything.  The TV is filled with half-naked bodies; even the billboards flash nudity and sexuality as I drive to the […]

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"The things you have learned and received and hear "The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you." 

Philippians 4:9 NASB
Most days I get so caught up in the chaos and need Most days I get so caught up in the chaos and needs of life that I forget God has a plan for my life. 

Between feeding children and folding clothes, who has time for God’s plan? 

Then you add in all the problems that come through different seasons of life and I can begin to feel alone in the struggles. 

Today we will look at how to be still and really see God in the midst of our troubles. 

We will see that God is bigger than any problem!

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/be-still-see-that-god-is-greater/
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For years I struggled to feel loved or lovable. For years I struggled to feel loved or lovable. 

There are days that feed the fear and insecurity in my life, like Valentine’s Day! 

What is a Christian woman to do when she feels unloved? 

Is love important? 

In my search, I began to wonder about the great love of God. 

What does God say about His love? 

A Lot. 

Today I will share over 50 Bible verses about God’s love that convinced me I am loved and help me keep growing in faith!

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/how-to-find-true-love-valentines-day/
Happy Easter! He is risen... let's rejoice and p Happy Easter! 

He is risen... let's rejoice and praise Him for the salvation that is now ours to embrace!
Who else is excited to celebrate Easter together? Who else is excited to celebrate Easter together?

This is my fav day of the year... this one day is the entire reason for the Christian faith!

💕Jesus lived a life with no sin
☠️Jesus died the death I deserved because I - like all humans - am a sinner
🥰But death could not hold Jesus!  He conquered death and rose alive on the 3rd day!!!!!!

I didn’t earn it and I don’t deserve it... but God gave this beautiful free gift because of His great love!!!!

He loves you.  He wants you to have that free gift too...

The gift is salvation and eternal life with Him but it is also peace and comfort and help through this tough life!

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"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory o "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" Romans 3:23
Soon our campus will be flooded with thousands of Soon our campus will be flooded with thousands of Christ seekers young and old and in all stages of spiritual growth. 

They come to church for Easter and Christmas. 

This is an amazing opportunity to serve the Body of Christ on our knees with strategically prayed scripture. 

Today I am sharing an Easter prayer Guide to help you get started.

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/how-to-pray-a-powerful-strategy-for-easter/
This was on the front lawn when I went out for my This was on the front lawn when I went out for my walk tonight!!!!!

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"The Lord’s lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, "The Lord’s lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, For His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness." 

Lamentations 3:22‭-‬23 NASB
I needed this reminder today! I needed this reminder today!
Easter is coming and one way we get our hearts and Easter is coming and one way we get our hearts and minds ready is through books. 

Today I am going to share a list of my favorite books about Easter to help you get ready as well!

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/34-christian-books-about-easter-for-all-ages/
“Cease striving and know that I am God; I will b “Cease striving and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” Psalm 46:10
"...but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is i "...but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin." 1 John 1:7
Who is ready to join us for this FREE 5-day weight Who is ready to join us for this FREE 5-day weight loss prayer challenge on March 15-19, 2021?

Comment below to let me know you're signing up! I'll be there too and will love having more friends to chat in the group!!! 🥰😍

What will happen in the group? 

📍A new PRAYER each day 
📍 A specific ACTIVITY each day to move toward weight loss and health. (They only take a couple minutes and are so powerful).
📍 The support of other women who understand how tough it is, so you won't feel so alone.
📍 Becky and Sara will guide the group and they are each maintaining a 100 pound weight loss and understand exactly what it's like!
📍 Most of all, you'll grow closer in your walk with Jesus as you give this area of your life over to Him.

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PS.  Did I mention there will be PRIZES?!?!?! 

Participate in each of the 5 days’ challenges and be entered to win a $50 Amazon gift card.

So there will be prayers | challenges | Helpful videos | and even more fun surprises!!!!!!

Be sure to visit each day of the challenge so you don’t miss the excitement.
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Comment below to let me know you're signing up! I'll be there too and will love having more friends to chat within the group!!! 🥰😍
Have you ever gone back to your browsing history t Have you ever gone back to your browsing history to find something only to find out it has been wiped clean? 

As the wife of a man who struggled with an addiction that was a red flag. 

One such morning about 10 years ago, I found myself asking google a question. 

I struggled with how to word it because I didn’t want pornography to pop up – some words bring filth no matter how you type them. 

Finally, I landed on a safe way to ask the question. 

Is virtual infidelity a ground for divorce?

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/is-virtual-infidelity-a-ground-for-divorce-biblically/
"The Lord your God is in your midst, A victorious "The Lord your God is in your midst, A victorious warrior. He will exult over you with joy, He will be quiet in His love, He will rejoice over you with shouts of joy." Zephaniah 3:17 NASB
Are you a selfish person? I am. At least 50% ( Are you a selfish person? 

I am. 

At least 50% (or more) of my thoughts and actions each day revolve around keeping life running without stress. 

In my not so humble opinion, life is best when it is easy, doesn’t require change, and creates a sense of comfort. 

If I am living life from a selfish mindset, and it turns out my husband is also living life from that mindset, we have a problem. 

Today we will see 3 ways to fight selfishness in marriage all tied together in the phrase, “Love does not seek its own.”

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/marriage-monday-week-8-love-seek/
“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow w “So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today." Matthew 6:34 NLT
Does your life feel like a constant battle? Mine Does your life feel like a constant battle? 

Mine has for so long that I get uncomfortable when there are seasons of peace. 

The truth is, there is a real battle happening than what we can physically see. 

There is a Spiritual War happening whether you acknowledge it or not. 

Over the years God has taught me how to prepare for spiritual warfare by being still when fear attacks.

Read more here ~> https://hopejoyinchrist.com/be-still-spiritual-warfare-do-not-fear/
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