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How to Create Prayers for Marriages in Trouble: War Room Prayer Strategy

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What advice do you give to wives when marriage is hard?  Is it a hard season or are you in a troubled marriage? If you are just in a hard season, take a deep breath, give it to God and wait because seasons change.  If however, you are in a troubled marriage you need to hold onto God tightly and begin to fight the real enemy of your marriage.  Today I will share How to create prayers for marriages in trouble This is a War Room Prayer Strategy!

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How to Create Prayers for Marriages in Trouble: War Room Prayer Strategy

It may be true that your marriage is in trouble but it is also true that your powerful God is bigger than your problems, never leaves you and is on your side.  Find hope in those truths and begin to learn how to create prayers for marriages in trouble to use as part of your War Room prayer strategy.

What is a troubled marriage?

What is a troubled marriage?  A troubled marriage is one where one spouse or both actively engage in destructive habitual patterns of sin.

There is no private or secret sin when you are married.  Everything you do affects your spouse and vise versa.  Sin creates trouble in your heart which creates the environment for a troubled marriage over time if left unchecked.

So when I counsel wives in a troubled marriage I advise them to make a list of the sin and their husbands’ sin and begin making a battle plan to pray over those things.

Take those Bible Verses for a troubled marriage (Click here fore more) into your war room and do battle with the real enemy of your godly marriage.

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How do I pray for my marriage?

I have never had a Proverbs 31 Marriage or been a Proverbs 31 Wife but I am a praying wife.  Prayer is always the first line of defense in a troubled marriage.

How do I pray over my marriage?

Find Bible Verses specific to your situation.  Once you begin searching you will be surprised to see the sheer volume of Bible verses for a marriage in trouble.

When creating a war room prayer strategy I begin with my own sin, then my husbands sin.  Praying over the sin in my own life helps keep my heart humble.

To start out we have to get real and real personal.  Get a notebook and a pen… I’ll wait while you prepare to create prayers for marriages in trouble.

How do you pray like the War Room?

We all want a powerful and effective prayer life but that seems to be a lost art.  I am so thankful for movies like The War Room that bring awareness to the need for prayer – the need for strategic prayer, spiritual warfare!

So how do you pray like the War Room?

It’s not hard.  You need a prayer place, you need time, and you need a prayer plan.

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My Prayer Closet

My prayer closet is not actually a closet, it’s the corner of my living room, however, location really isn’t that important.  I sit on the couch which has a stool beside it where I keep my prayer journal, bible and colorful pens.  In other words, the perfect prayer closet for you will be convenient and comfortable.

My prayer journal isn’t a fancy war room prayer journal like you can find on amazon.  It’s just a notebook I fill with prayer requests.  I do use a prayer strategy template you can find here.

War Room Ideas:

I also prefer a mobile war room approach.  I keep my prayers in my phone so that I can pray through them wherever I am.

  • In line at Walmart
  • At the doctors office in the waiting room
  • On a walk
  • In the middle of the night when I can’t sleep

Why not redeem technology through strategic prayer and spiritual warfare?  What will follow is my prayer strategy template for creating those prayers I keep on hand in my mobile war room.  It is a great war room prayer strategy!

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What are the sin issues in your life?  Write them down.

I’ll go first.  My sin struggle is lust, always has been.  When I search for verses about this sin to pray over my life I follow this path.

The sin of lust leads to discontentment, distance and destructive behaviors like pornography, flirtation, emotional affairs, and infidelity.

Here are some prayer strategy examples to get you started.  Go to google and search:

  • Bible Verses about Lust
  • Scripture on Discontentment
  • Bible Verses about Pornography
  • Scripture on Flirtation
  • Bible Verses about Infidelity

You will have a lot of verses to choose from.  Read them and the chapter they come from to be sure they are in context.  Then write the verse out as a prayer.  Hang it up in your war room.


Don’t have a war room?  No problem.

  • Text it to yourself.
  • Email it to yourself.
  • Create your own mobile war room.
  • Set reminders on your phone to help you pray more often.
  • Put the verses and prayers on index cards and tape them up around your house, at work, and in the car.

Do whatever you have to do to remember to pray that verse over your life regularly.  A war room doesn’t have to be an actual room, it can be your lifestyle – in fact, it should be.  Becoming a prayer warrior is a lifestyle change that brings the power of God into your everyday life.

If you or your spouse also struggle with lust you are welcome to use my prayer from this post to help you get started.

  • Next, repeat the process for your husband’s sin.
  • Now, find verses that God gives as promises when marriage is hard.
  • Finish with blessings from God for your marriage.

Soon you will have dozens of Bible verses to help a marriage in trouble to become a successful marriage.

Bible Verses about Hope to use as Prayers for Marriages in Trouble

Marriages in trouble often fall into 1 of 3 categories of question:

  • Please help me create prayers for unhappy marriage.
  • I need prayers for a deeply troubled marriage.
  • Please say prayers to save marriage from divorce.

In each case of a troubled marriage, begin by finding Bible verses about hope.  If you think about it, hope is an underlying theme throughout scripture.  When life is hard, find hope in Christ.  When marriage is hard, find your strength in hope in God.  God is Hope and we have access to that hope every day as we are using strategic prayer in spiritual warfare.

Hope For Marriage

We simply need to be reminded of the hope within when we need hope for marriage.

1 Peter 5:10 After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you.

Colossians 3:1-2 Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.

Galatians 6:9 Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary.

Isaiah 40:31 Yet those who wait for the Lord Will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary.

Mark 10:27 Looking at them, Jesus said, “With people it is impossible, but not with God; for all things are possible with God.”

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Turn Bible Verses about hope into prayers for marriages in trouble

Father, I come before you needing hope.  There is suffering in my life but I believe that through this suffering you will perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish us.  Thank you in advance for that sweet assurance.   (1 Peter 5:10)

Holy Spirit, please remind me that I have been raised up with Christ and must keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. It is so hard to not look at the problems in front of me.  Help me learn how to set my mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth so that I can keep hold of the hope you have given me.  (Colossians 3:1-2)

Lord Jesus, I am tired of always working on this difficult situation in our marriage.  Help me not lose heart in doing good.  Remind me that in due time I will reap if I do not grow weary. when I do become weary please give me Your strength for the day.  (Galatians 6:9)

Heavenly Father, I am waiting on You.  Please give me new strength for the battle today.  Remind me as I feel too tired to keep fighting that I will mount up with wings like eagles, I will run and not get tired, I will walk and not become weary.  Your strength is more than enough to keep hope alive today.  (Isaiah 40:31)

Dear Lord, this situation seems impossible.  Thank you for the reminder that with You all things are possible with God.  Remind me of that in the hard times and help me see Your hand at work through it all. (Mark 10:27)

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How do I restore my broken marriage?

Remember that being brokenhearted is not a bad place to be in the Kingdom of God.  God is near and will sustain the broken marriage when you turn to Him in humility. That is why I have included this topic in my list of prayers for marriages in trouble.

These are just a couple of my favorite prayer warrior scriptures about brokenness that can help restore a broken marriage.

Psalm 34: 18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
And saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Psalm 55:22 Cast your burden upon the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.

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Prayers for the brokenhearted in marriage

This is how I would turn those bible verses about brokenness into a prayer for my broken marriage.

Lord, Your word promises that you re near to the brokenhearted.  I am broken.  My heart hurts from all the hard part of this marriage.  You promise to save those who are crushed in spirit.  My spirit hurts from the deep cuts.  Save this marriage, heal my heart, restore the hope and joy in our marriage.  No, make it more full than it ever was to begin with.  In Jesus name. (Psalm 34: 18)

Heavenly Father, you said I could cast my burdens upon You and You will sustain me.  This hard season of marriage has lasted longer and been more painful than I ever could have imagined and I am failing.  Please take this burden and help me to not be shaken from the commitment to our marriage. (Psalm 55:22)

Bible Verses to use as prayers for the hurting wife

So often we press through the hard parts, mustering up fake strength, pretending everything is fine in marriage.  All the while we are broken, weak and hurting.  That is the time we most need a war room prayer strategy…  Oh but what if we had one in place beforehand and could avoid the brokenness?!?!?!

Sweet Hurting Wife, there is no need for false strength.  When you get real about your weakness, your brokenness and your marital problem to God, God can come in to heal, restore, and make your marriage strong – make your marriage better than it ever was in the beginning.

2 Corinthians 12:9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.

Isaiah 41:10 ‘Do not fear, for I am with you;
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’

Prayers for the hurting wife

Holy Spirit, I am weak, hurting and ready to give up on this whole mess of a marriage.  You said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness”, but I am struggling to believe there is hope.  Take this spirit of hopelessness today and replace it with the same spirit Paul had when he said, “most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me”.  I want to boast in You alone and give You the glory as you heal and restore all the hurting places in my life.  (2 Corinthians 12:9)

Lord Jesus, I am afraid.  I am hurting in ways I never dreamed possible.  Yet you tell me, “Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.”  You are my God and I am believing you for the peace of your presence in this moment.  You said, “I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”  I need your help today like never before.  Hold onto me, hold me up.  Thank you for always being faithful and righteous.  I surrender this hurt to You today. (Isaiah 41:10)

Bible Verses to use as prayers for marriage protection

Life is hard and when marriage is hard and we need marriage protection like never before.  When you have been doing the heavy lifting of fixing a broken marriage know that you can come to God weary and heavy-laden and find rest like you never could anywhere else.   That rest is like a fresh start for you, a form of marriage protection that we all desperately need.  Protection and rest are keys in prayers for marriages in trouble.

Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”

Allow room for God to work in ways you never dreamed possible.  When you trust Him, do Marriage God’s way, He can heal broken parts you never thought could be healed.

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Prayers for marriage protection

Precious Savior, I know that when I am weary and burnt out from life and the hard parts of marriage we are vulnerable to attack.  Hear these midnight prayers for marriage as I struggle even to sleep all night worried about all the hard things.  You said, “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”  I am weary and need rest.  Please take these burdens.  Please bear the weight of all this hardship and pain.  Fill me with Your Spirit of peace and joy as I wait for you to move in this season of marriage. (Matthew 11:28-30)

Heavenly Father, nothing right now makes sense.  Why is this so hard?  I don’t understand but I will trust in You with all my heart.  Your way doesn’t follow logical sense but I commit today to not lean on my own understanding. I will acknowledge You as I walk through this troubled marriage with You.  I will let Your light shine in this dark season and trust that You will make my paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

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Scriptures for marriage restoration

Standing for marriage reconciliation can be hard and feel lonely.  It feels like the whole world would have you just divorce and move on.  But you are in good company if you can stand for your marriage – even if you are standing for your marriage alone.  The Bible has a lot to say about the restoration of relationships that you can use in your war room prayer strategy!

Matthew 5:24 leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.

Matthew 19:6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

Matthew 19:26 And looking at them Jesus said to them, “With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Colossians 3:13 bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you.

Hebrews 12:14 Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord.

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Prayers for Marriage Restoration

Heavenly Father, you told us how to work toward marriage restoration but it feels sooooo hard.  Help us learn how to bear with each other, how to genuinely forgive each other just like You forgive us.  Make this restoration a way of life that shines Your light and love to the lost world. (Colossians 3:13)

Tender Father, I am struggling in this marriage.  You said, “Pursue peace with all men” but I can’t see the way to peace.  You also said that You have a peace that surpasses all understanding.  Please fill us with that and enable us to live in it even when we disagree and can’t see the way through these marriage problems.  You said that through choosing peace others will see You and tat is what we want.  Please shine through our marriage.  (Hebrews 12:14)

Holy Spirit, You value restoration in relationships so much You don’t even want my offering if there is a problem between me and another believer.  Help me remember that.  Work to reconcile things between my husband and I each day or as soon as possible so that I can stand before you with a clean heart and always be ready to worship you and be in your presence.  (Matthew 5:24)

Lord Jesus, You said that when we were married we were no longer two, but one flesh. The enemy is working hard to separate us.  Distraction and discontentment have slipped in.  Business and misaligned priorities also seek to separate us.  Help me stand firm in my commitment to this marriage and say daily, “What God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)

Precious Jesus, this marriage looks impossible.  It seems like everything is against us.  I feel hopeless and tired of fighting. Everyone says just give up and start again.  But You are the same God who rose from the dead, was born of a virgin, sought and redeemed me from so far…  Help me never forget that when things are impossible to human minds, “with God all things are possible.” When I can’t see hope for marriage keep my hope firmly planted in You. (Matthew 19:26)

Will You Accept the Challenge to Make a War Room Prayer Strategy with these Prayers for Marriages in Trouble?

In conclusion, the battle for your marriage may feel hopeless today but you are taking the first step toward hope by being here.  Biblical marriage principles are never easy but they are always effective.  No, they won’t save every marriage but they will draw every heart nearer to God which leads to victory.  Victory comes when you draw near to God.

Will you create a War Room Prayer Strategy?

  • Set up a space you can call “My Prayer Closet”
  • List your sin and your husbands’ sin
  • Find verses to use in strategic prayer, spiritual warfare over those sins.
  • Claim one of the verses on:
    • Hope for Marriage
    • Prayers for a broken marriage
    • Prayer for the hurting wife
    • Marriage protection
    • Marriage restoration
  • Create a Plan to pray these prayers for marriages in trouble
    • Download the verse cards
    • Hang them up where you can see
    • Copy and paste them to your phone
    • Set a reminder to pray

If you will join me in this Marriage Challenge comment “I’m in” and I’ll be lifting you up in prayer today.

in HIM,

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Tiffany Montgomery

Tiffany of Hope Joy in Christ inspires Christian Women to grow in faith, live out Biblical Marriage Principles and raise Godly Children.  Join the Wives Only Facebook Group here or keep up with her through Pinterest.

9 thoughts to “How to Create Prayers for Marriages in Trouble: War Room Prayer Strategy”

  1. Such a practical and helpful post. Giving all the prayers and Scriptures to people is so helpful. For those who don’t know the Bible very well, it is immensely important that you already gave all of that to them.

  2. I so needed to hear this! Marriage is so challenging at times, but also one of life’s biggest blessings. My husband and I have been in a challenging season, but we are standing on God’s promise that he has given us EVERYTHING we need for life and godliness–that includes marriage. Thank you for these incredible ideas for war room prayers for our marriage.

  3. Beautiful prayers for marriage Tiffany! We all have ways in which we can pray for our marriages and this was a great encouragement to me on how to use scripture to get more specific in how I pray.
    (I have a copy of the movie “War Room”- I think it needs to be our “date night” real soon!)

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