This year I have been working through a question, “Why can’t I keep my priorities straight?” Honestly, there are weeks (sometimes months/years) when I realize I was busy but I accomplished nothing! I can’t remember the last time I had quality time with God. My kids are out of control. My relationship with my husband is growing distant. Anxiety rolls over me like a familiar friend. How do I set Biblical priorities for a busy life?
But I am busy… so busy I could fall into bed each day completely spent. How on earth does that happen? Busyness is a strategy the enemy uses to keep me distracted from my true calling.
How Can You Fight for Biblical Priorities for a Busy Life?
This year God challenged me to look into the reasons I am so busy. I want to share them with you along with some ways I am working to change this pattern!
One way to Fix My Priorities: I have to learn to say NO.
My struggle is that I care about what people think of me. Whew, that is hard to say. It is important to start making God a priority in my life.
Put God first to set Biblical Priorities for a busy life!
My 1st priority has not been to Love God because I am too busy pleasing people. God is teaching me that I have to be more concerned about what HE thinks of me than what others think of me.
I say “Yes” too quickly for a lot of reasons…
- A deep need to be needed.
- I want to feel like I accomplished something.
- It feels good to feel important.
- I don’t want to lose certain skill sets.
- What happens if no one else will step up?
- I fear that someone else will mess it up.
None of those are good reasons to say “Yes”. God has been showing me these truths and it hurts to see the mask I have been wearing. Learn more about ways to get your priorities straight here.To fight the busy life and fix my priorities I have to start saying ”No” or “I’ll pray about that and get back to you” instead of 'Yes'. No has its place in Biblical priorities for a busy life! Click To Tweet
“He who restrains his word has knowledge, And he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding. Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent.” (Proverbs 17:27-28 NASB)
TWO – to fight the busy life and set godly priorities – I had to write down my priorities
It is easy to wander through life -from one task to the next- instead of being intentional with my life. In the past, I had some goals, but I didn’t have a plan or a purpose to reach those goals.
So I began digging into the Bible to see if God had anything to say about that.
My priorities should be:
- God – Love with all my heart
- Husband – Respect
- Kids –Train up in the way they should go
- Calling – seek after the passion God has put in my heart
I am starting to examine every area of my busy life to be sure they reflect my priorities (are there any spiritual priorities?).
I am a little nervous about this process – as a people-pleaser I worry about stepping out of things – hurting people, losing the respect of those I respect, leaving someone in need because they needed me. Can you relate?
But if I don’t start living out my priorities I will never fulfill my calling… ha, until last year I didn’t even realize I had a calling. It is very motivating!!!!!!!!!
“Only, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And so I direct in all the churches.” (1 Corinthians 7:17 NASB)
Three – to Set Biblical Priorities and Fight the Busy Life – I Have to Slow Down My Quiet Time
I know I need to spend quality time in God’s word – asking Him to order my steps. But sometimes it feels like I’m only checking off something on my to-do list.
I fall into that trap often. I know I am supposed to read my Bible, but it feels mechanical sometimes. It doesn’t always feel like a way to get to know Jesus and grow our relationship.
I feel like I should do every Bible study offered at church or I need to read through the entire Bible in a year. (Remember I struggle to say no… do you ever feel that way?)
When my quiet time is getting stale I’ve come to notice the red flags:
- Being easily annoyed with others.
- Falling back into old sin habits.
- Not “feeling” close to God.
- Skipping days or weeks of quiet time.
The most meaningful time I have in the word is usually a verse or a passage at a time. Sometimes I spend weeks in 1 chapter or working through one topic.
“This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it; for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have success.” (Joshua 1:8 NASB)
To revamp your quiet time try to be systematic about it:
- Read the verse.
- Lookup parts of the verse I don’t understand.
- Find other verses that talk about the same topic.
- Pray through it.
- Write the verse out.
- Pin the verse up so I can meditate on it throughout the day.
I struggle with distraction during my quiet time so I use a journal. I find that writing down what I learn helps me remember it longer and stay focused.
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Which of These 3 Ways to Set Biblical Priorities for a Busy Life Will You Try Today?
Setting Biblical priorities for a busy life can be a challenge when we are surrounded by a fast-paced world that doesn’t value God.
- Learn to say, “No”.
- Write down priorities.
- Slow down the quiet time.
When I am doing these it is easier to fight the Busy Life Strategy the enemy wants to use. It is easier to stay focused on My Priorities in life!
These are just 3 ways I’ve found to set the priorities but you might have others. I’d love to hear them in the comments.
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- 40-Days to Be Still and Know God More
- How To Become a Strong Prayer Warrior and Why
- 40 Bible Verses to Overcome Anxiety
- 38 Inspiring Bible Verses about Gratitude to Get You Through Hard Times