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How to Be a Wife from a Biblical Worldview

We’ve been walking this journey together for some time and I love every comment, email and PM you send.  Today I want to answer a question I am asked over and over again.  It’s funny, the question comes in all kinds of forms and variations.  Sometimes it is straight forward, other times it is backhanded accusation – either way I love to interact with you 😉 What is a Biblical Wife?  How can you be a godly wife?  My husband says I am not a good Christian Wife?  You get the idea I am sure.

We -each and every human bein walking planet earth – live out of our Worldview.  It dictates our beliefs, actions and words.

A Worldview is just that – a view of the world.

It is shaped by our past, our culture, our hurts and victories, our hopes and dreams…  In Church circles we often describe things as coming from a Cultural Worldview (where the culture around us dictates how we thing, believe and act) Vs a Biblical Worldview (where the Bible dictates how we think, believe and act).

In a perfect world, you could easily say then that the Christian’s – those people who have surrendered their lives to Jesus Christ and proclaim Him Lord of their lives – live out a Biblical Worldview and those who have not made that decision live our a Cultural Worldview.  Do you live in a perfect world?  I sure don’t.

So I’m going to split hairs for a moment.

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A while ago I shared how I choose to see myself as a Disciple of Christ rather than a Christian.  People ask me (all the time) why I split hairs about the name, but it is a mental shift for me about how I think about my faith.  Its a relationship with Jesus – not a religion.

You see, in my early childhood – I asked Jesus to save me, to love me and keep me from an eternity in Hell.  The years that followed that were spent playing a church game; shy quiet church girl on Sunday then crazy party girl the rest of the week.

Now the Bible is clear about how a person is saved.

Romans 10: 9-10 9 that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; 10 for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.

When I prayed at age 6 I believe I was 100% saved. 

But I didn’t really start following hard after Jesus until I was 23.  I was a Christian in name only and I was not living from a Biblical Worldview.  My life looked exactly like the culture around me.  Can you relate?

I know first hand how a person can be a Christian but not live a Biblical Worldview.

For years I dug into the Bible to find out how my life should look and God worked miraculous things into that journey.  But honestly, I had not been applying them inside of my marriage.  So crazy right!?!?!?!  Somehow I had learned to treat everyone well except my husband.  Been there?

After years in this miserable Marriage God brought us to a low I never imagined.  It wasn’t until that rock bottom season of life that I began digging into the Bible to see How God says a wife should live.  It is surprising to see that most of how we should behave is really how we should treat everyone in our lives.

Our Husband is just another person on this earth we are called to love like Jesus.

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How can you be a Wife living in a Biblical Worldview?

It really begins with a heart check.

  • Are you saved? 
    • Has there been a time in your life when you have come face to face with the severity of your sin in light of a holy God?
    • (If the answer to this is no – please email me and let’s chat about how much God loves you and longs for you to be in His family)
  • Have you surrendered your life to God? 
    • I mean really surrendered it – not just asked for fire insurance? 
      • Nothing wrong with fire insurance – except that you miss out on the Abundant life God promises to those who follow Hard after Christ.
  • Are you in the Bible pursuing God’s plan for your life? 
    • Not a devotional where someone else tells you what the Bible says – I mean you, a bible and God – talking over the hard things of life…

If you are saved, surrendered to God and pursing God’s plan for your life in the Bible – you sweet wife are on the road to being a godly wife, a Christian Wife, a wife with a Bible Worldview.  No matter how you ask – that’s it.

One thing I love about God is that He never demands perfection.

Perfection is a thing people require.  God just asks us to stay in the process!  Are you in the process with God?  Taking your wifehood to Him and letting Him mold you daily?  That is how we begin being a wife after God’s own heart!

Do you need some help along the way?   

Are you longing for Hope and Joy in your Marriage?

God took me through a journey of re-learning how to live as a wife with a Biblical Worldview.  It is a joy for me to teach and mentor locally and I am thrilled to launch this new Online Course.

In this 9 week Course we will dig into the Bible and find out how to restore our Marriage – rebuilding it to Last a lifetime!

This Marriage Course will include:

  • 10 Self paced video lessons
    • Love
    • Forgiveness
    • Desires Vs. Preferences
    • My Mouth
    • Appreciation & Admiration
    • The Leader
    • Understanding Men
    • Respect
    • My Priorities
  • 9 weeks of personal study
    • 5 days each week that should take 10-15 minutes
  • 45 Days of Prayer prompts

I hope to see you inside the course soon!

in HIM,

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Tiffany Montgomery

Tiffany of Hope Joy in Christ inspires Christian Women to grow in faith, live out Biblical Marriage Principles and raise Godly Children.  Join the Wives Only Facebook Group here or keep up with her through Pinterest.

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