Do you dream big dreams for your adult life?
God has been shining His light on some unhealthy beliefs in my life. They have kept me from dreaming big and kept me from meeting my “God Given Potential” as Sandy Gross
Sandy wrote a study that is literally rocking my world called “You are Potential”
. Do you believe that?
She asked this simple question that drove me to tears:
What dreams did you have as a child?
These are the 2 thoughts I wrestle with:
- God has Dreams & Plans for each or our lives.
- I gave up dreaming long ago and live caught in the business of a disappointing life…
Can both thoughts live inside of me?
They both Feel True. Both are Emotionally charged inside my mind.
But they can’t both exist inside of me and produce a life that Makes a difference for Jesus in a broken world.
I had dreams as a child. Didn’t you?
Dreams of becoming a teacher, a mother, a singer, a paleontologist (they wore cute outfits)…
I don’t have dreams now.
Well I do, but not for my life – I dream for other people: my kids, my husband, our church, my ministry. What about you?
Why do we stop dreaming?
I can only speak for myself when I say the disappointment of life crushed my ability to dream for myself.
Life has been hard. Everything has been like an up hill climb and just when I think it will all be okay, another crazy mess appears and we are swallowed up in trials.
Everyone’s life is not like that, but it seems like mine always has been.
To top that off, every time I fail at something or dig my way through a mess, I re-inforce a belief about myself and my life… A false belief I am learning
There are things I believe about myself that keep me frozen in fear and anxiety.
I say certain things to myself to keep from stepping out and being crushed by failure.
Do you do that? I think as women we all have some negative self talk. Why is that?
Ugh, we’ll be talking about that later on for sure.
Life has taught me to stop dreaming big dreams.
I am wrong.
But How do I get past that? How do I step out and Dream Big Dreams? God sized dreams? How do I find out what God is dreaming for my life? What are His Plans for me? How does He want my life to go?
I have a lot of questions. Maybe you do too?!?!?!
The only place I know with the Answers is God’s Word. So I turn there and this is what I find.
God has a calling on all our lives
We can ask God to show us His plan
I love how Isaiah 30:21
says he will speak it… do you ever hear God speak? It can sound like lots of things. A verse you read that hit you between the eyes, a friend sharing something, a word in a sermon, a stranger sharing a word…
God’s plan for us is all relationship driven
Some of my broken beliefs and stressful trials came as a result of others hurting me. Can you relate? I ‘m talking about deep hurt. Abuse, betrayal, loss… (Read some of story here: Why I moved from Christian to Disciple).
I have had to work hard through the issue of un-forgiveness to get my Walk with Christ unstuck. I’d love to share that journey with you in a Free E-book.
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