Anxious. Worried. Afraid. I don’t mean to feel Anxiety. Can you relate? Honestly there are days I want to scream because inside there is Joy. There really is joy in my life and in my Marriage today. A decade ago we were on the road to divorce. Nothing was going right and I was sure it never would again. Why didn’t the anxiety strike then?
Hi, I’m Tiffany and I battle anxiety. There are days it feels like my anxiety defines me. The real me takes a back seat and I struggle to breath – let alone get off the couch. ‘Where did I go’ I wonder. “Where did my wife go” my husband asks.
There is a constant war to assure him I am fine, he is fine, we are fine. None of this anxiety is related to our relationship. Our marriage is stronger than it has ever been and we have really fought some war’s together.
We have battle Alcoholism, Pornography, loss of jobs, miscarriages, a full year of colic…
Do you need some encouragement to keep pressing into that Daily Commitment?
We could all use a community to help us in Reclaiming Hope & Joy in our marriages!
We just finished a 31 day Series to help us Reclaim Hope & Joy in Marriage by Intentionally Investing in our Christian Marriage. Get the articles Free in this downloadable e-Book. And Be sure to check out the Wives Only FB Group where Christian Wives chose Hope and Joy in every Season
Now we war against Anxiety
It is a war I never saw coming and I have no control over. I’ve found 3 things that give me Hope we will survive this war between Anxiety and Joy in our Marriage.
How can I keep a firm hold of Joy through Anxiety?
1. I have to remember what Joy is and where it comes from.
The thing I love about Joy is that we can have it regardless of our situation. It is not about happiness or smiling… though it often brings a smile.
Joy comes from Hope -even while we are patient in tribulations (Romans 12:12)
Joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit who lives inside of me (Galatians 5:22)
Romans 14:17 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit
Today’s article is a Guest Post at Julie Loos’ spot at Unmasking The Mess. Julie is a city-girl-turned-country-girl who is learning to be real in a the messy everyday things. She shares her life and faith while equipping us with tools to use to Trust God when Life is Hard.
But before you hop over there to finish reading I’d love to share the 40 verses that help me overcome Anxiety.
Today’s article is an excerpt from the Marriage Course Finding Hope and Joy in My Marriage. This self paced course is for Wives Only -teaching us to live in our Marriage from a Biblical Worldview.
The Course is laid out in 9 Modules with a Video Lesson to introduce the topic and a downloadable workbook.
- Inside the workbook are 5 days of work for you to do – just you and God.
We will walk through the topics of:
- That is deeper than lip service
- Desires Vs. Preferences
- And how they war
- My Mouth
- Why & How we can tame it
- Appreciation & Admiration
- The best ways to use our words to create momentum in our Marriage.
- The Leader
- Who is it and how do we actually make that a reality.
- Understanding Men
- What does this really mean and how can we accomplish it?
- Setting them to make the best Future for our Marriage
As a Bonus, when you sign up for the Intermediate Plan
- You will be paired with an accountability partner who will be there to talk to when the days are hard.
- You will have lifetime access to a Private Facebook group where you can connect with other like minded Wives.
- I will be hands on in the FB Group to answer questions and pray over needs as they arise.
When You sign up for the Advanced Plan you will have a Mentoring Call with me about week 4 to talk through the hard things and plan ways to resolve those issues you are really battling!