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Are You Afraid of Respect in a Christian Marriage?

I don’t feel like he loves me.  He never listens to me anymore.  Why is he always so distant?  He never wants to be with me or the kids anymore.  What happened to the man I fell in love with?  How can I respect this man?  These were common thoughts in my past.  Can you relate to any of them?

Over and over I hear wives ask some variation of this question.

Those are valid statements we speak from a place of longing and pain.  I understand them because I have said them myself.  For years I had no respect for my husband.

If I’m honest, I was afraid to Respect my husband

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You see, I always understood Respect in a 20th Century American way.  Respect as defined by Webster Dictionary is “a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.”

Respect had to be earned and could easily be lost.  Giving my respect meant accepting a person -every part of that person (faults and all).  I thought of it as a personal endorsement that reflected on me directly.

But God says Respect your husband.

He doesn’t seem to give any loopholes or stipulations.  This is one of very few direct commands given to wives specifically.

Ephesians 5:33 NASB  “Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband”

Our Marriage was no Fairy-tale – even from the beginning.  After nearly a decade we were at the end of our rope.

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Today’s article is a Guest Post at MsLoTanner’s spot. Lo Tanner is an Alaska grown marriage and lifestyle blogger. She is a wife and mom of three and has a passion for equipping wives thrive in their faith, marriage, and goals

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Tiffany Montgomery

Tiffany of Hope Joy in Christ inspires Christian Women to grow in faith, live out Biblical Marriage Principles and raise Godly Children.  Join the Wives Only Facebook Group here or keep up with her through Pinterest.